
A green baby is on the way!
It all started with a dream…
It is not often that I remember my dreams, and it is even rarer when I find any relevance by interpreting them. In the span of a mere four days, I woke from two dreams that left me wrangling for meaning. In one dream, my wife would call me from the hospital to tell me we just had twins! Because this was dreamland, the fact that I didn’t know she was pregnant wasn’t an issue. My conflict was how excited I was going to be to be a parent for the third time and how cool it would be to have twins. In the second dream, my wife and I discovered elven-like creatures living underground in our back yard who had been “spawned” from the two of us. My wife would remember in the dream that there was a doctor during her last pregnancy who did a blood test on her. She would never see the doctor again and never knew what the test was for. In the dream, I had accepted the responsibility of bringing them into the family but was conflicted about how that was going to happen. A neighbor was clearly agitated by what we had discovered, and I didn’t know if it was better to bring them into the house or try to protect them from the world and leave them underground where they came from.
Now, at the time of these dreams I had no clue that my wife was pregnant. Our youngest had just started kindergarten, so it was a time things would get simpler – an easier baby sitting schedule and a quite house if I was home during the day. I assumed that the dreams were a subconscious way of making the mental transition a parent must experience as their children reach school age. Silly me. I was looking for a metaphor the whole time when it was reality that came knocking.
Oh, the questions that now arise!
In January of 2008 when I started going green in a serious way, I started this blog to document my efforts in transforming into a green lifestyle. I wanted to be real about it – to be honest about what steps were easy to take and what steps were difficult. As I began to develop this blog, it occurred to me that I might not have to address all of the choices a parent might make during a pregnancy and the first year of a child’s life.
There are now a thousand questions that are rolling around in my head, and I am looking forward to tackling them during the next several months. There are so many questions that I have begun to compile, and I’m sure there will be many more on the way.
- Will we use doctors, midwives, dulas or a combination of them?
- Can Mom continue chiropractic care throughout the pregnancy?
- What should Mom be eating during the pregnancy to limit toxins from entering the placenta? What can she eat to ensure the best nutrition reaches the baby? Appetites and cravings are always volatile during pregnancies, how healthy will we be able to be?
- What will we do for diapers? Resuables? Biodegradables?
- What baby bottles are safe to use? Are there any types of plastics or should we focus on glass?
- What about pacifiers and nipples for the bottles?
- What kind of medications, if any, are safe for my wife to take during the pregnancy? Her allergies have been going crazy, are there any safe decongestants?
- How long will she be able to breast feed? What formulas are safest?
- For the most part, we already use nontoxic soaps and lotions, but is there anything better we should use on the baby?
- Can we afford to purchase an organic mattress and organic sheets?
- Would we ever consider a home birth? There is a small but growing niche of parents opting for this.
- What about the birth itself? Will my wife want the epidural for the third time? What are some natural birthing methods, and how much better can they be?
- If it’s a boy, will we choose circumcision?
- Should we have a baby shower or a baby blessing?
- Should Mom get the swine flu shot that her employer is encouraging all employees to get? Do they even work? Is there a negative impact on the baby?
- What are the best books to use as resources in answering these questions?
All of these questions will get a certain amount of examination, but it will be interesting as to what level of “green” we will take in addressing each of them. Some of them will be simple – like breast feeding and glass bottles. Some of them will take quite a bit of research – like resuable diapers and improved diet. Others will challenge the finances like organic clothing and bedding. Some of them will challenge our comfort levels in such a way that I can’t imagine at this point choosing a home birth or a baby blessing. Either way, I am really excited about being a dad again – it’s one of my favorite things in life.
The nesting begins
Within hours of discovering that I was going to be a father again, my mind was already in “nesting” mode. All of the projects that I have been putting off for cleaning, organizing, repairing, and greening the house are now suddenly a higher priority. I have already been tasking at home, and the recent post about using SteamGreen to clean the carpet is a prime example.
Stay tuned to answers to the questions above and evidence of my nesting process as it continues to develop.

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